go install github.com/dolonet/mtg-multi@latest was broken because go.mod
declared module path as github.com/9seconds/mtg/v2 while the repo lives
at github.com/dolonet/mtg-multi. Users ended up installing upstream
binary without multi-secret support.

Fixes https://github.com/9seconds/mtg/issues/376#issuecomment-4162877568

connIdleTimeout previously set per-direction deadlines independently.
During media downloads the client→telegram direction can be idle at the
application level while telegram→client is actively streaming data.
After IdleTimeout (default 1 min) the idle direction's ReadDeadline
fires, tearing down the entire relay and breaking media transfers.

Replace the per-direction timeout with a shared atomic timestamp that
both pump goroutines update on any successful Read or Write. When a
ReadDeadline fires on the idle direction, we check the shared tracker:
if the other direction was recently active, we retry instead of closing.
The connection is only torn down when both directions are idle for the
full timeout period.

This matches the documented IdleTimeout contract: "if we have any
message which will pass to either direction, a timer is reset."

Overhead: one atomic.Int64 (8 bytes) per connection pair, one
atomic.Store (~1 ns) per Read/Write with data, zero extra goroutines.

Fixes #423

- avoid deprecated DefaultIdleTimeout, use time.Minute directly
- simplify embedded field selectors (QF1008)

Domain fronting relay (for non-Telegram traffic) had no idle timeout,
causing worker pool exhaustion under traffic spikes.

The ProxyOpts.IdleTimeout field existed but was never wired into the
proxy. Now domain fronting connections are wrapped with per-read/write
deadlines reset to the configured idle timeout (default 1m), so stale
or slowloris-style connections are reaped promptly.

Fixes #378