- Use sync.Pool for relay buffers instead of stack-allocated arrays.
  A [16379]byte on the goroutine stack forces Go to grow it to 32KB
  (next power of two). Pooled buffers keep goroutine stacks small.

- Same fix for doppelganger write buffer ([16384]byte in conn.start).

- Replace idle goroutines with context.AfterFunc in proxy.ServeConn
  and relay.Relay. These goroutines existed only to wait on ctx.Done()
  and close connections. AfterFunc achieves the same without allocating
  a goroutine until the context is actually cancelled.

Net effect: at 3000 concurrent connections on a 1-vCPU/961MB VPS,
the unmodified binary drops 246 connections and falls to 10 MB/s.
With these changes: zero failures, 63 MB/s, 31% lower RSS.

Closes #412

Instead of a separate cert_probe.go that duplicates the scout's TLS
connection logic, measure the cert chain size directly from the same
HTTPS connections the scout already makes.

Changes:
- Extend ScoutConnResult with payloadLen field
- Add Write interception to ScoutConn for handshake boundary detection
- Scout.learn() now computes cert size (sum of ApplicationData between
  CCS and first client Write) alongside inter-record durations
- Ganger aggregates cert sizes across raids and exposes NoiseParams()
  via atomic pointer for lock-free reads from proxy goroutines
- Proxy reads NoiseParams from Ganger on each handshake instead of
  probing at startup
- Remove cert_probe.go, disk cache, and related config options
  (noise-cache-path, noise-cache-ttl, noise-probe-count)

Falls back to legacy 2500-4700 range until the first scout raid
completes (typically within 1-2 seconds of startup).